139. Pop Culture Roundup: Barbie, Ariana Grande, Love Island UK & Alix Earle

Join us on the latest episode of Confident Collective as we dive deep into the world of pop culture scandals and trends! Raeann spills the tea on the Love Island UK finale, while we both chime in on the Barbie movie magic. The Ariana Grande + Spongebob storyline is too wild to not get into, so we share our POV on the sticky situation. Plus, find out more about the unforgettable moments at the Cardi B and Miranda Lambert shows, and the scandalous Alix Earle incident in Montauk that has the internet buzzing. And just when you thought it couldn't get crazier, Kristina opens up about the spirit haunting her house. Remember, it's all in good fun! Slide into our DMs with your thoughts and stay confident! 🎤✨🌴🎬

What We Talk About:

  • Why Raeann thinks she's in a flop era right now

  • Kristina’s crazy haunted house story

  • Love Island UK finale

  • Our Barbie movie reviews

  • Our thoughts on the Ariana Grande dating Spongebob

  • Cardi B throwing a mic & Miranda Lambert selfie move

  • Alix Earle makeout fallout

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138. Decentering Romance & Defining Your Life Beyond Your Relationship Status with Khaylah Epps

Today we are excited to sit down with our friend, Khaylah Epps. She is the voice behind the podcast I Might Die Alone, and if you're a single woman, you're going to see a lot of yourself in Khaylah and how she is approaching romantic love in her life. In her podcast, she celebrates women who are defining their lives beyond their relationship status and dives deep into the dichotomy of wanting romantic love, but also not letting that absence consume us.

In this episode we talk to Khaylah about her journey of decentering romance in her life and what that has looked like for her. We talk about her desperate era and experience being on The Bachelor, her ultra independent era, and how she’s landed in her current gray era; finding a good balance between wanting a romantic relationship without letting that desire become the center of her life. Khaylah shares beautiful insight and advice about the difference between being single and being alone, why there shouldn’t be a hierarchy of relationships, and navigating friendships with people in all phases of life.

We're so excited for you to hear this episode and encourage you to check out Khaylah’s podcast, I Might Die Alone, if you enjoy or relate to this conversation!

What I'm challenging is the idea of obsessing over a romantic relationship and saying that it is the most important relationship for you to find in this lifetime. I just disagree with it. I think it's beautiful but I think so many other relationships are beautiful as well, and there should be no hierarchy. - Khaylah Epps


What We Talk About:

  • Traveling versus vacationing

  • Obsessed with: the age filter on Tik Tok & A Court of Thorns and Roses

  • Where this pressure to be in a relationship comes from

  • How to begin to decenter romance

  • Learnings from Khaylah’s desperate, ultra independence and gray eras

  • How to understand and uncover your patterns in therapy

  • Khaylah’s experience on The Bachelor

  • Building a community of female friendships

  • Navigating friendships in different life phases

Having really intimate romantic friendships is so important. A community of women has brought so much fulfillment to my life in the last three years that I've been single. I would not be able to survive without my girlfriends. - Raeann


Being in a relationship isn't like the end all be all. We need to stop at this linear definition of what is a happy partnership because that's different for everyone. - Kristina

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137. Ask Away: Dating Advice, Navigating Thin-Centric Culture & Social Media Confidence Tips

We're kicking off Leo season with a fun and fiery episode of The Confident Collective! We're totally crushing on some famous Leos, Kristina’s sharing what she learned in her insightful astrology reading highlighting how important it is to tune into your intuition and trust your gut. We're also spilling the tea on our latest obsessions - The Golden Bachelor & The Summer I Turned Pretty. But it's not just about us, we're also digging into YOUR questions. We're tackling relationship etiquette (what's up with boyfriends hogging first class?), sharing our thoughts on the trending ozempic and body size discussions, and giving our two cents on how to move on from a one-sided crush. Plus, we're sharing our secrets on how we muster the confidence to show up as our real, authentic selves daily on social media. So, get ready for a ton of laughs, real talk, and a dose of self-love!

We have to learn how to stop putting so much of our self-worth into the hands of other people. - Raeann

What We Talk About:

  • Welcoming in Leo Season with famous Leo’s we want to make out with

  • Kristina’s astrology reading takeaways

  • Tips for manifesting what you want & connecting to your own intuition

  • Obsessing over The Golden Bachelor & The Summer I Turned Pretty

  • Answering your questions!

    • Should I be annoyed that my boyfriend sits in first class when we travel without upgrading me, too?

    • How are you both handling this big boom of ozempic drug slash smaller bodies being trendy?

    • How do you let a guy go that you’re obsessed with but know is not into you?

    • How do you ladies find the confidence to show up as you are on the daily, IG, TikTok threads, so authentically you, and with such confidence? 


When you're fearing judgment, you're worried about what people are thinking of you that literally don't matter in your life. Because the people that matter, the people that care about you, that respect you, are going to be proud of your hustle, are going to be proud to see you trying something different and excited for you and hoping that you succeed. So you have to stop worrying about the thoughts of others who literally don't matter. - Kristina


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