141. Confidently Embracing 30: Raeann's 10 Takeaways from Her 20s

Raeann is 30 & thriving! As she confidently enters a new decade, she’s sharing 10 takeaways from her 20s in this episode; from relationships to self confidence to friendships to career – she's sharing what she's learned in the last decade that is making her so excited for this next phase of life. Raeann shares how she’s feeling about this milestone birthday, and all the wisdom she’s gained in her twenties to bring into her thirties. We talk about her birthday plans, and Kristina shares what turning 30 has taught her, and a little more about what you can expect in this decade of life. If you’re turning 30 soon or have recently entered your 30s, this episode is for you! Let us know any wisdom or insight you’d like to share on Instagram at @confidentcollective.

“I feel so at peace with turning 30. I feel so excited for what's next in my 30s. I feel like the 20s were really like a time where I did the dirty work and set the groundwork. Now in my thirties, I feel like I'm getting to know myself so much better, and I'm just really, really excited.” - Raeann Langas

What We Talk About:

  • Sharing our location with friends and family

  • Life updates: preparing for travel & birthdays

  • Preparation & excitement for Fashion Week

  • The new RHONY

  • Reflecting on Raeann’s last birthdays

  • What Kristina did for her 30th birthday

  • What Raeann’s plans are to celebrate her 30th

  • 10 takeaways from turning 30: career, relationships, health and self development


I think that for me, your 30s are more about trusting yourself and knowing that all the experience you've had so far that you had it in you to do whatever you want to do. You're absolutely capable and you don't really need permission from anyone else. - Kristina Zias

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140. Going Deeper With Rosie On Casual Sex, Celibacy & Reclaiming Sexual Freedom

Raeann has been having a lot of conversations with friends lately about the shift in her mentality around casual sex, so we thought we’d bring in Rosie to help us unpack and navigate this topic in case any of you are going through similar experiences. We talk about what Raeann learned in her “ho phase” enjoying casual sex and why she has no regrets. We talk about the emotional and physical implications of casual sex that caused Raeann to rethink her relationship with it, and enter her “celibate era.”

Join us as we dive into what her siren summer looks like dating without having sex right away, and what having casual sex taught her about herself. This episode is a no judgment zone as, and we hope this conversation highlights your right to reclaim your sexual freedom and individual relationship to sex in your current phase of life, but to always make sure it feels good for you.

I feel like I've come into that phase of my life where, as I've been dating recently, I have been waiting much, much longer or not doing it at all. I do feel like I have that power. I'm choosing who gets to have access to this part of me. - Raeann


What We Talk About:

  • One of the most embarrassing stories of Kristina’s life

  • Raeann’s embarrassing story & big life update

  • Raeann’s mindset shift around casual sex

  • Hookups on vacation versus at home

  • Women’s increased likelihood of getting STDs

  • Reclaiming our sexual freedom

  • Is casual sex actually good sex?

  • The energetic exchange in sex

  • Embracing feminine power

  • Why Raeann decided to make the shift to changing her sex life

  • What Raenn’s celibate era looks like

I've always thought, if you want to have sex with me, do you know how fucking lucky you have to be? And I feel like that is the attitude and value that maybe we need to all have. - Kristina

As women we’re told if you sleep with x amount of people, you're a slut. It feels like a necessary thing to shake that off and find your freedom. I think you needed to have that experience of going down that path to realize, actually...Maybe I don't want all of that freedom, I just wanted to know that I could have it should I choose. - Rosie

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139. Pop Culture Roundup: Barbie, Ariana Grande, Love Island UK & Alix Earle

Join us on the latest episode of Confident Collective as we dive deep into the world of pop culture scandals and trends! Raeann spills the tea on the Love Island UK finale, while we both chime in on the Barbie movie magic. The Ariana Grande + Spongebob storyline is too wild to not get into, so we share our POV on the sticky situation. Plus, find out more about the unforgettable moments at the Cardi B and Miranda Lambert shows, and the scandalous Alix Earle incident in Montauk that has the internet buzzing. And just when you thought it couldn't get crazier, Kristina opens up about the spirit haunting her house. Remember, it's all in good fun! Slide into our DMs with your thoughts and stay confident! 🎤✨🌴🎬

What We Talk About:

  • Why Raeann thinks she's in a flop era right now

  • Kristina’s crazy haunted house story

  • Love Island UK finale

  • Our Barbie movie reviews

  • Our thoughts on the Ariana Grande dating Spongebob

  • Cardi B throwing a mic & Miranda Lambert selfie move

  • Alix Earle makeout fallout

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