166: Who TF Did Tory Almost Marry: Red Flags, Gaslighting & Sex Addiction

Long Story Short: He Lied About His age

We’ve all binged or heard about @ReesaTeesa and her 50-part TikTok series about her pathological liar husband, right? Well, let us introduce you to Raeann’s sister, Tory Langas, who’s about to open up about her 5-year relationship with a man who ended up being a sex addict and narcissist. The red flags started early on in their relationship when he lied about his age (hello, 16-year age gap), but was overlooked because of their love and pull towards one another. But the red flags kept piling up from fighting with family members to going to Vegas with his “ex” to not being able to hold down a job.🚨 His narcissistic tactics kept Tory on her toes to please him which ends in a huge hit to her self-esteem. After his lackluster proposal, enter Tinder girl and Tory’s new therapist. They opened her eyes, shattered her trust, and made her start to trust her intuition because window shopping on Tinder is NOT okay.🤯 Amid deception and heartbreak, Tory stood up for herself and left the toxic relationship and we are SO happy for her and her new lovely life!!🤍 The takeaway is not to fall in love with the potential of someone and always trust your gut, ladies.

On a lighter note, Raeann and Kristina also fill us in on their tropical humid-filled vacations.🌴Raeann vents about her flight chaos and Kristina shares how Steve booked their Miami trip and the hiccups that entailed. Also, if Natural Cycles said you’ll be on a trip during your period would you move it?? Raeann did just that, but we know the swim content is going to be fire! This pod is full of twists and turns so buckle in and get ready for Tory to spill the tea.

Raeann has been loving these mixed metal earrings. They go with everything!

Kristina has been loving this chic weekender bag. It fits soo much!

Don’t forget!!

165: Ask Away: Wedding Planning Drama, Intimacy Dynamics & the Journey to Self-Love

Raeann & Kristina dish their juicy love & dating advice in this week’s Ask Away episode! 💗

In this Ask Away episode, love, dating, and relationships take center stage. But before we dive into your burning questions, did you know Raeann was in musical theater?! Apparently, Raeann and Mr. Jersey break out into show tunes together which we love. Speaking of things we love, Kristina has been obsessing over love languages which also sparks the debate if returning gifts from a loved one is tacky or not. Rae and Kristina also chat about the planning it takes to get ready as a girl, the elaborate lies they told to impress boys in high school, and the fact that they have quite different dating philosophies.

As we explore the intricacies of relationships through YOUR Ask Away questions, the ladies give their raw and juicy advice to help with your love life dilemmas. We tackle wedding planning drama and the controversial topic of tray-passed hors d’oeuvres to comparing yourself to your partner’s ex to getting your partner to be more intentional. Then we spice things up by talking about the dynamics of watching porn in a relationship, emphasizing the importance of realistic expectations and the allure of a 10/10 storyline, such as the art of baking bread. 🔥 Throughout the episode, Raeann and Kristina emphasize the importance of body confidence and self-love, encouraging deep talks, shared experiences, and maybe some ethical porn. As our Month of Love concludes, we hope you find self-love, embrace one another’s love languages, and spice things up in the bedroom. xoxo Raeann & Kristina 💕

Kristina is obsessed with these kitten-heel sandals! I wore them every night on vacay and they were so comfy.

Don’t forget!!

164: Getting Vulnerable with Dr. Morgan: Decode Attachment Styles, Break Toxic Cycles & Build Self-Worth

Dr. Morgan dives into our attachment styles & how we can break toxic relationship patterns

If you’ve found yourself saying “they hate me, it’s been 6 hours since my last text ” or if you run as soon as feelings start to brew, this episode is for you. Dr. Morgan, a relationship coach, is here to help us navigate through the four different attachment styles and give us advice on how to stop self-sabotage and break toxic relationship patterns. Get ready to get deep and vulnerable as we analyze past dating history and learn how to let go of unhealthy relationship beliefs. We also learn that certain attachment styles repeatedly attract each other which made the constant “you’re dating the same guy” spiral make so much sense. And remember, boundaries and self-worth is HOT. 🙌

And as we enter week 3 of our Month of Love, also enter Mr. Jersey?! Yes, Raeann’s man now has a nickname which must mean they’re getting serious, right? 😍 Rae and Kristina also debate whether meeting the friends is a big deal or if the opinions on the man’s jorts is just creating unhelpful noise. Speaking of men and their icks, Travis Kelce anyone?! Meanwhile, Kristina is still obsessed with her cute little neighborhood and also found a new obsession for Nara Smith and her idyllic dream life. ☁️ Rae on the other hand is obsessed with the ‘starting over at 30’ side of TikTok...if you’re also feeling a quarter-life crisis coming on, you’re not alone. Get ready to get deep and vulnerable in this episode, but trust us your relationships will thank you!

Kristina loves this sporty dress! Will be wearing it to run all my errands come spring!

Raeann has been loving this workout onesie for pilates!

Don’t forget!!