178: Ask Away: Engagement Drama, Glow Downs & F-Boys

Drama-filled ask away episode!

Today’s Ask Away episode is full of juicy drama, but first, get excited confidants!! On June 29th, we’re throwing a Confident Collective Pool Party in Los Angeles! It was one of our highlights from last year and tickets sold out so fast so make sure to set a reminder to buy them this weekend. As we recap our week, Raeann shares the details of her first hormone-fueled fight with Gabe. Kristina chimes in that the hormone rage just heightens after you have kids, just one of the joys of being a woman. Kristina also chats about her fight with Steve and him being antisocial with the soccer dads. In this week’s obsessed, Kristina is raving about the start of a great Jersey Shore summer and Raeann is listing off curvy girl leads and crossing her fingers for a racy scene in Bridgerton.

The girls brought plenty of drama this week. We explore a brother-in-law’s whirlwind engagement and the tension that results within the family. Red flags are apparent, but we give our two cents on how to restore harmony. We also discuss how to navigate a “glow down” season, from embracing self-care and mindset changes to putting on a cute new outfit. One girl asks for advice on how to proceed with a potential (aka definite) f-boy, while another asks whether or not to disclose all of her past relationships from her sexcapade era to her partner. We also offer encouragement to those in their early 20s to embrace this chaotic chapter in their lives. Hope our advice helped and we can’t wait to see you all in person on June 29th! 

Raeann’s current obsession! If you are looking for a comfortable nude heel these are my fav!

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Kristina’s current obsession! My go-to summer belt that I wear with every swimsuit and is under $15.

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176: Solo Episode: The Art of Being Cringe & Caring Less

Embrace our cringe, so we can be our most badass successful selves

In today’s solo episode, we are chatting about embracing the cringe and not letting people’s opinions get in the way! Raeann posted about her butt acne issues and her community came through with helpful advice, the girlies understand. Especially helpful as we’re in our sporty girl era, Kristina is excited about joining a beach volleyball team and Raeann is currently training for a half-marathon. We also chat about our expectations when it comes to surprises…catch Raeann’s couch boy 2.0 surprise reaction with Gabe on our Patreon. Also soon to be on Patreon, Kristina drops that she’s having sleep coach, Steph Fischer, guest star to give advice to us parents who need a little help getting our little ones to sleep. In pop culture news, we dissect our favorite rom-coms and swoon over Tom Brady in his latest feature on The Roast.

Okay, let’s get into why being a little cringe is not a bad thing! Our opinion is that to be successful you must do things that are considered cringe-worthy, especially when you’re just starting out. Kristina and Raeann relive their moments of cringe and why those moments also got them to where they are now in their careers. Once we get rid of this limiting belief and stop caring about other people’s opinions, we can truly start being our most successful, badass selves. Post the TikTok, join the sports league, start painting, write the book, do whatever it is that you feel excited and passionate about and don’t worry about what others say or think, they’re just jealous anyways!

Raeann’s current obsession. This smells like summer in a jar!

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Kristina’s current obsession! The way this tea kettle brings me SO MUCH JOY!!!! It truly makes me happier every time I see it!

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175: Kaitlin Reagan on Her Journey of Grief, Healing & Finding Herself Again

Kaitlin Reagan opens up about how to heal & be happy again after loss

Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Kaitlin Reagan, a content creator whose journey through love, loss, and self-discovery has inspired many. Kaitlin and her boyfriend of 9 years, Francesco, began to share their love story on TikTok during the monotonous days of the pandemic and quickly grew a loyal following. She reflects on their beautiful love story and how their love endured even as cancer tragically took Francesco’s life. As she grappled with Francesco’s passing, Kaitlin found herself navigating one of life’s darkest moments and began the process of rebuilding her life from rock bottom. She slowly discovered what it means to truly heal and be happy again while redefining the role social media should have in her life. Kaitlin also opens up about her new-found journey back in the dating world and gives insight into how to put yourself out there again while staying true to yourself. Tune in to listen to Kaitlin’s moving story of love and resilience, and don’t forget to follow her @kaitlin_reagan to get the inside scoop on her recent dating life.

On a lighter note, Raeann shares that she finally made it through the overwhelming process of finding an apartment in New York and is looking forward to a fresh start. Kristina is enjoying the little moments of life and chats about how her family’s sunset beach hangs have been good for the soul. Also, they’re obsessed with Nicola Coughlan being the curvy lead of Bridgerton season 3! Anyways, this week’s episode with Kaitlin Reagan is moving, insightful, and makes you believe in true love. 

Kristina’s current obsession. I have worn this dress so much since I got it! It is so insanely stunning!

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